Everybody's Saying their "I Do's"
I believe it's better to marry at a later more mature age to a partner you consider worthy than to marry young because of peer pressure and afterwards suffer years of abuse and regret.
While I am not saying I am against early marriages, I am just saying that I am sick of people accusing me of not WANTING to get married. That my dear readers is not True.
I do want my fairytale wedding, I used to be one of those girls that was dead against marriage, and then I Fell in love with someone. I am no longer with said person but love made me realize that when the time and partner are right marriage is definitely something I really want. So it bothers me when people that are getting married at an early age act like they always knew they were going to get married in their early twenties. You don't know these things, they happen as you go along. So unless you magically happen to be Merlin and can predict the future I suggest you acknowledge that us single ladies out here try. It just isnt our time.
I say this because I know that I want the following:
- I want a partner to cuddle with on cold nights.
- I want my shoulders to be warmed with an over sized sweater or jacket
- I want a partner that will laugh at my jokes no matter how silly i get, and trust me i can get Prettyyy silly.
- I want to wake up to a face i love in the morning.
- I want to have kids one day
- I want someone i can whisper my deepest secrets to and not be afraid to be judged for it later on because i would know their deepest secret.
I want all the mushy, gushy, OMG mindblowing small details/moments that come with love and relationships & i am willing to Wait.
P.S. I am extremely happy for all the brave women i know that have fell in love, gotten engaged, married, divorced etc. The whole Lot. Because you went for it and tried. succeeded or not, you were meant to be.
Love,
Fearless
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