We need the Good kind of Man
2012 is at the edge of disappearing into my closet of memories. But I decided I'd like to share an empowerment I found this year! This is for every Woman out there who is fearless on the inside but held back by negativity:
"There was once a time , I wont say long ago, where your approval was my only source of comfort. However, not only have those days ended, but we have ended as well. It shouldve been a destructive ending seeing how things were, but i found myself gracefully bowing out, keeping my pain to myself. Your voice was no longer audible, was no longer able to reach me.
You were lost to me, but lost with good reason.
I have realised that I am every bit the Woman you convinced me I could never be. I realised i was every bit as capable , and i didnt know that until I set myself Free.
I have realized that not only do I not need you, but that no one can validate me like I do on my own two feet."
Dont get me wrong, Im not saying by any means that I dont need a man in my life, or that you ladies out there shouldnt go for it when it happens. What I am trying to say is Love yourself and everything will fall in place, like the pieces of a puzzle.
Many people misinterpret my unwillingness to give every man that comes my way a chance as being very aggressive. I am not aggressive, maybe I am. But what i am trying to say I am Aggressive to protect my right of choice. I Simply do not want to SETTLE for less than I deserve, and judging by my knowledge and insight about myself I am well worth so much. I give the chance for conversation, but sometimes the eyes, gestures even laugh can tip you off to things left unspoken, and a woman's intuition is right. when you know , you know.
So dear men out there, We NEED you in our lives, just please make our choices worth it.
Love,
Fearless
"There was once a time , I wont say long ago, where your approval was my only source of comfort. However, not only have those days ended, but we have ended as well. It shouldve been a destructive ending seeing how things were, but i found myself gracefully bowing out, keeping my pain to myself. Your voice was no longer audible, was no longer able to reach me.You were lost to me, but lost with good reason.
I have realised that I am every bit the Woman you convinced me I could never be. I realised i was every bit as capable , and i didnt know that until I set myself Free.
I have realized that not only do I not need you, but that no one can validate me like I do on my own two feet."
Dont get me wrong, Im not saying by any means that I dont need a man in my life, or that you ladies out there shouldnt go for it when it happens. What I am trying to say is Love yourself and everything will fall in place, like the pieces of a puzzle.
Many people misinterpret my unwillingness to give every man that comes my way a chance as being very aggressive. I am not aggressive, maybe I am. But what i am trying to say I am Aggressive to protect my right of choice. I Simply do not want to SETTLE for less than I deserve, and judging by my knowledge and insight about myself I am well worth so much. I give the chance for conversation, but sometimes the eyes, gestures even laugh can tip you off to things left unspoken, and a woman's intuition is right. when you know , you know.
So dear men out there, We NEED you in our lives, just please make our choices worth it.
Love,
Fearless
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