So if I want a partner I betray the sisterhood?

Why does aspiring to marriage have to be a bad thing? Of course I aspire to love. Don’t we all? Love is lovely. The marriage bit is simply how our society has traditionally chosen to formalize that love. And for some reason that has become something I am not supposed to say aloud. And it’s something most of my contemporaries wouldn’t own up to either. If we do so, it is with a real trepidation that other women will think we’ve betrayed the sisterhood or implied that women should live in some mad pursuit of a getting someone – ANYONE – to put a ring on it. That is not True.


Without Lipstick Today,

Fearless